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Rambling Responsibility: Banning Books

This linked article is an interesting one (the comments are interesting too). It is about a parent and author having an ongoing issue about banning books. The parent wants the school his child attends to ban the author's book. Read the letter from the parent and the response from the author.

I do not usually write posts like this, but here goes. This is my humble opinion, yours might / will be different. That is what makes us human.

We have a responsibility to educate the youngsters of this world. Whether it be to smile at them and say thank you when they shop in our stores. Whether it be to ensure the Government in office is the one that is going to care for their future. And we must read and write words. Words are important. They feed the mind, they form the future of our world.

The word HATE is an issue with the parent in the article I found. It is a word that is used flippantly around the world. It has two faces, the innocent and the evil one. I hate Mondays, I hate enough to kill...see the two faces?

When we write, we write for ourselves, then we write for our audience. We do not consider our book will offend, upset or disturb the mind of another - unless it is our intention to do so. The act of writing a book, getting it published and presenting it to the world today, is the reading material of the future generation.

Books I read as a child are now banned. Why? I was not affected by them. BUT- OTHERS WERE. Do they have a right though, to prevent the present day readers from making up their own minds?

See, we all have different views, different styles of absorbing material. The one thing I do say is that we should be allowed to find out for ourselves.

My three children were fed books for breakfast. They all had different likes and dislikes. Two are girls, so they enjoyed different things to their brother. He HATED theirs and they in turn HATED his. I controlled their reading material to a certain level, then decisions had to be made.

Our neighbour was a librarian, she pointed out to me that D1 was advanced for her reading age. The material on the shelves she was allowed to use on her junior ticket, was not stimulating enough for her. We agreed that she would select suitable books for D1 and have them at the desk for pick up. After the second week, D1 approached me. She was upset. I had taken away a pleasure for her at the library. Her right to choose a book, to lift it off the shelf, to hold it and read the blurb.

I was in a quandry; what was I  to do? I discussed it with DH, he does not read books, but understands their importance in the life of another.

She was 10 years old, very intelligent and a stable character. We made a decision and told my librarian friend, D1 could choose her own reading material from the YA section if they would agree a ticket for her.
I have no regrets, D2 was not interested as she HATED kissing bits in the books when she sneeked a peek.

All became highly educated adults( D1 became head girl). I know they will feed their children (when they have them), the same book food. They will let them taste and decide. I am certain they will be annoyed to see books they read, being banned because another disapproved of them.

The reader who demands banning books, cannot differentiate the word HATE from the word HATE. That is the educational part, teaching the meaning of the word. Where the word has two faces, show them the correct word in the correct environment. Not ban them from finding that out for themselves. That is not education, that is closing a mind.


Rant over.

30 Comments:

Maribeth said...

Well said, Glynis!
As a Junior in a Catholic High School (16 yrs. old) Catcher in the Rye was required reading. 250 kids read that book that year and many more before and after, to the best of my knowledge none of them has gone off to kill someone. But someone did and blamed this book so now it is banned.
Banning is a dangerous practice. Far more dangerous IMHO than the books that are removed.
Maribeth
Giggles and Guns

Glynis said...

Thanks Maribeth. I do agree. I read many classics for school. I did not run off and poison or kill friends, just because I read the words.

Thanks for visiting today.

Kathryn Magendie said...

I am going to check out that post/article - curious!

I was in Malaprops, in Asheville, and saw a shelf marked "banned books" - it was full of books that had been banned over the years I guess - and Huck Finn was there and others - I just stared, amazed!

Fear is a dangerous thing.

Kathryn Magendie said...

PS - I see my books up there *smiling* -- thank you

Alex J. Cavanaugh said...

A balanced child will not be affected in a negative fashion by such things. Like your children, I turned out all right, and I was reading adult books by the time I became a teen.

Glynis said...

Kathryn, it is interesting to read. It is quite amazing how many are out there. Because they are banned, I want to read them!! *rule breaker*

Yes that is my bedside library *smile*

Thanks for visiting today.

Glynis said...

Alex, that is so true. We have to ensure they are allowed to balance themselves. We are to be there when they fall, but not to push them. If my father said I could not read something, I would go and read it to find out why. He woudl have gained nothing at all from his 'forbidding'.

It always amazes me how my kids turned out. The mother they have...LOL

Thanks for coming by today.

The Alliterative Allomorph said...

Very interesting and I agree with you completely! I read the whole article just now, but if I get started on that dim-witted parent I'll end up with a comment longer than your post! And this was not a rant, it was a very very interesting and valid point of view. :)

Glynis said...

Thanks Jessica. I didn't dare leave a comment for the parent either. I would not have been able to control myself.

Great to see you, thanks for stopping by.

Les Edgerton said...

Great post, Glynnis! The fact that there are banned books only points out the power of the printed word and is precisely why the first thing repressive governments seek to muzzle the press and literature. It's also precisely the reason a free press is crucial to a free people.

Stephen Tremp said...

Whatever happened to freedom of speech? As a aprent, I would rather enforce our constitution then monitor what my kids read. I'm involved with their lives and will not let them read books I deem inapproriate. But let's not ban books.

Stephen Tremp

Glynis said...

Thanks Les, I just had to get it off my chest! Banned Books? Bah Humbug!

Thanks for coming by today.

Glynis said...

I do so agree Stephen. Light control but not banning!

Thanks for visiting.

Jody Hedlund said...

Sounds like you were a wonderful parent too, Glynis. I think that we have to know our children, teach them to be discerning, and then trust that they will. I ask my kids to come and tell me when they run across things in their books that they don't understand or that we need to talk about. I also try to ask them about their books. Hopefully, they will grow up to be critical thinkers and readers.

Jen Chandler said...

Very well said. I agree. There are books I devoured as a child that are now considered "banned" or are, at least, on the "scorned" list. There are books I still read that are protested. Yes, we must be vigilant and watch what our children are reading, and step in when necessary, but to demand that everyone must read (or not read) just because of something that happened to YOU is not right at all.

Good for you for posting this, Glynis.

Jen

Ann Best said...

Each person is a free agent. Free to choose what to do, what not to do; what to read, what not to read. I'm with Stephen on this. Know what your children are reading. Guide them to make good/wise choices - in everything. Ban books? No.

Thanks for the thoughtful post.

Glynis said...

Jody, thanks I tried to do my best. You are educating your children, not controlling them. Well done, they will grow into amazing people, with interesting lives.


Thank you so much for visiting me today.

Glynis said...

Jen, thank you. I had to write my thoughts on this. Great to see you here today.

Glynis said...

Ann, I agree with you both. Free to choose is so important.
Thank you for coming to see me today.

Talli Roland said...

Echoing all the other comments - well said/ written, Glynis! I couldn't agree with you more. I like Jody's approach.

Glynis said...

Thanks Talli. Jody has an amazing attitude to parenting. She shares her life on her blog at times.

Stay cool in the UK, enjoy the sunshine while it lasts ;0

Thanks for dropping by today.

Susan R. Mills said...

I so, so, so agree with you! Nicely put.

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Jennifer Shirk said...

Yes, I agree. Awesome post!

The Ancient Digger said...

I believe the more controversial the book the better. I have learned more from books like To Kill a Mockingbird and some by Edgar Allen Poe, and I have understood the world as a whole because of literature like this.

Glynis said...

Thank you Susan. I felt so inspired by the article, I just had to get my view across.

Great to see you here, thanks for visiting.

Glynis said...

Thanks IGal, will pay a visit later.

Glynis said...

Thanks Jennifer. I think it got my message across :).

Thanks for taking time to visit today.

Glynis said...

Lauren, you are so right. We need variety, to form opinions for ourselves.


Great to see you, thanks for visiting.

Jackason said...

1984, in my late teens, gave me a desperate urge to rebel. Not just against the state but against society itself. For that I’m eternally grateful. i must have read the book half a dozen times since then and even though Winston and Julia are beaten by big brother in the end it still irrationally triggers that teenage impulse. It’s easily my favorite book.

Recently I read Naked Lunch and a few days later i was walking home behind some random old lady, and out of the blue the thought that it would be funny to see her neck snapped popped into my head. Luckily my rational mind spotted the anomalous thought before any unpleasantness. But the fact that I thought it means it must have had some influence and god bless Burroughs for that nasty little thought that gave a boring walk home some relevance.

if anyone is really interested there’s a video on youtube with Ballard where he talks about how violence, ect., in books is, he thinks, somehow beneficial to society . I’ll see if I can find a link.
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